party-goer?

Is it weird that I am just not that much of a party-goer?

I mean, don't get me wrong, they can be fun if its gonna be all my friends cause at least then i can talk to some one while everyone is getting drunk. But for some reason I just never really have a major desire to go out and party. I like to dance and stuff but what people do now isn't really dancing, its more of just sex on the dance floor. Its like one big orgy of people fully clothed and standing up while music plays in the background. Not to mention most of the girls there are just drunk and looking to get fucked and personally, since I don't drink, it is not very appealing to me to dance with a drunk chick who reeks of alcohol. Maybe that is why I am not much of a partier, maybe its because I don't drink I just don't feel parties are a good use of my time. I mean yeah I could meet a lot of cool people and stuff, but for some reason when ever people ask me to go to a party with them I just, don't want to.
I just feel like, since I don't drink or really like to party that I am missing out on a giant key element to the whole college life thing. But I don't know what I should do. Should I go to parties even if they are not that appealing to me just to try and meet new people and stuff? Should I try drinking to see if that maybe loosens me up? Or should i just stay home all the time while my friends go out and party and go to clubs and come back talking about what a great time they had? I guess I just don't know what to do but for now i will just continue to do my thing and chill at home until something come along that sounds fun to me.